Delicious Diamond: KEYSHIA DIOR (muah)

Urban model and Stylish Sensation Keyshia Dior has Blessed us with her Lips. Before I promote Miss Dior I have to share with you ALL why I'm down with her and why I support her. There have always been beautiful models who graced videos & magazines, but none whom I felt I could relate to. I had yet to see a beautiful woman who exerted class when I saw them and wasn't all about taking back shots of their ASS.  I needed a model who wasn't mediocre whos' Style & SWAG was sickening. I had yet to see it, & if it wasnt done before I hit the scene I would have to change things. However she was blessed with the opportunity before I, which is fine, she's paving the way for me. When Keyshia made her way on the scene i made an IMMEDIATE connection with her. FINALLY, finally someone I can relate to who can be of some imspiration. A LADY calling her OWN shots, styling herself for mags, vids, & events. Branding herself for something way beyond modeling. The Epitome of a BOSS chick not afraid to be daring & take risks. Truelly Inspiring!!
Keyshia stepped her cookies up even higher releasing her Lipstick line "Secret Kisses" available for pre-order just in time for Christmas! Her line offers a variety of 15 different Hawt colors with creative names such as "Foil", "Naked", "It's a girl" and "Seductive" (both Photoed below) just to name a few.





www.secretkisseslipstick.com/shop/
The line will be available in stores Valentines Day weekend, its No Secret! Ladies, You can thank me later! :* (muah)

Cortez Bryant is 'So Glad he went to J.S.U.'

New Orleans native Cortez Bryant pays respect to his Dear ol College home. Young Money's co-president and manager of the labels' artist Lil Wayne, Drake, & Lil Twist can partially thank his Alma Mater for his fame & fortune. Before the hectic schedules, long days, late nights,and months of touring "Tez" was somewhat your Average Joe attending Jackson State University and participating in the Marching Band. "I had a band scholarship at Jackson State University (in Jackson, Mississippi). It got me out of the city; I never thought that would happen" Bryant is a "well known figure in the entertainment industry" who's success was not overnight,and because of that, his story has inspired me. The Mass Comm Major and ART Minor speaks candidly in a interview on how attending Jackson State made an impact on his life. Cortez Bryant is so glad he went to JSU, hopefully I'll be able to say the same thing too. Click the link for the interview  www.celebrityaccess.com/members/profile.html?id=545

If your mom was Single how would YOU want a Man to treat her?

There have been plenty of guys who've shown interest in me, and TELL me how they're not like every other man and I should give them a shot. From the jump they show me they're not too different from the rest of them. I don't know what it is, but guys court women ALL wrong. Now it could be that they just want "THAT Thing" , which is normally easy to be detected. But if they so claim that they want to be My bestfriend or potential spouse, they go about it INCORRECTLY. I don't know if it is because A) they haven't dated a woman of my intelligence and standards B) they're "young" & considered immature because they're between the ages of 21-26 or C) they don't know any better & are Just ignorant when it comes to courtship. Or Maybe D) all of the above.

Im disgusted and disappointed in these guys' lack of Knowledge when it comes to women/LADIES who know their worth. If you want a Lady it's going to take some effort, to show that you even deserve her. For Example: Kicking it at the house for a first date is Whack, cheap, thoughtless & in my opinion INAPPROPRIATE. And if that's all a guy inquires is going over her house or inviting her over his, that courtship is OVER! If you are bringing up sex and asking explicit questions and you haven't taken her out, not only is that Inappropriate it is quite the turn off. And THAT courtship, is over!!For a man courting a woman from long distance there's plenty he could do to keep her interested if she's really into him. Consistent chivalrous acts will show he is serious about his interest in her. And if a man wants to see a woman, no matter how far, mileage will never be a issue.
Men: How would you feel if a man showing interest in your Lovely mother only wanted to chill in the house, never wanted to take her out and wine And Dine her?? Would you want your mother to be with a man that didn't put forth an effort, who didn't invest in her? I sure hope NOT! If men would Just take that into consideration Maybe they'll get a little further with women. 8 Ounces of Consistency and Considerstion 2 cups of Respect 1 cup of Chilvalry, 4 Tablespoons of Honesty, and 3 Teaspoons of Thoughtfulness are major ingredients to a Successfull Courtship! (in my opinion)

If for a moment you are un sure of how to go about dating a LADY just consider "If Your Mom was single how would you want a man to treat her?"

Pink Awareness

So I saw a handful of my followers tweet how anxious they were to cop @NickiMinaj 's new pink lipstick that recently came out Friday & decided to share the following: Majority of you ladies may know that our chick Onika Maraj paired up with MAC Cosmetics to create her own lipstick "Pink 4 Friday" in honor of her new album. The lipstick was available for Purchase Nov 26, and because it is a Limited Edition it will only be available for the next 4 Fridays, ONLY on MACs website. (which according to the site, Due to high demand, is SOLD OUT!! Check back Next Friday) retailed at $14.50.
MY Opinion: The Lip color is Hawt, there's no doubting that, however that particular shade of Pink isn't for everybody! Everyone Can NOT pull it off! Alot of y'all are quick to buy the lipstick but don't even know what it looks like on, & whether or not it compliments your skin complexion. I suggest going to the Mac counter & find The right shade of Pink for you! I recently purchased Saint Germain a lipstick by MAC, I adore it.

Its a tad bit lighter than Nicki's color. (it reminds of Pepto Bismol color) Its a very BOLD Bright Dramatic lipstick. )I tone it down with Victoria Secrets' lipgloss "Baby Doll") Maybe some of you All will like it on aswell. I've seen @blacchyna_mia talk about it and decided to try it out.em>

Chyna's a well known dancer at King Of Diamonds, a Gentlemens club in Miami. She Became more recognized from Drake shouting her out "Call up King of Diamonds and tell Chyna it'll be worth the flight" She recently got casted as Nicki Minaj's Stunt double in the music video for "Monster" Look out for her when that debut's and cop #pinkFridayhoe .. Pink Awareness

"Weeping may endure for a Night, But JOY comes in the Morning"

It breaks my heart to see strangers hurting and in pain (whether physically, mentally, or emotionally) let alone people whom are dear to me. I pray at night, that God give those that i care for (as well as those that need it ) the strength to overcome obstacles in which they feel are unbearable and possibly unfixable. I couldn't help but be anything less than inspired to write this entry by friends whom have recently been tested by Lifes' harsh realities. From an Ex mourning the loss of his grandmother, a friend having a fluctuating, unhealthy relationship with her parents, a friends' betrayal from a loved one, as well as another friends' financial instability. WE have ALL been knocked on our knees before, but we must remember we're in the perfect position to pray. As I remind others that there are many reasons to live to see another day, (primarily knowing that 'HIS' favor Lasts a lifetime) I have to remind myself of this as well. Mariah Carey "Fly like a Bird" snaps me back into reality every time.. Reminds me .."Weeping may endure for a Night, But JOY... comes in the Morning" - Psalm 30:5

JayOnce'

So word is Jay -Z finally knocked up is wifey Beyonce'. Its about time shes nearing 30 and hes in his 40s. Someone suggested that Bey couldnt let A Keys and Swizz Beatz out do her. Im sure JayOnce' will be a musical Genius not only (Egypt) We'll have to look out for in 11 years. Im sure the Illuminati will have a "christening" for their most anticipated newest member. If a boy however, I have no doubt in my mind that Jay will be comparing his son to Jesus, being that he's compared himself to GOD. smh I just Hope lil Jayonce' gets their moms looks.

"Women are Fun to play with, but I sure DON'T want one for a LIFE PARTNER"

Last night one of my friends told me I was going to be single for the rest of my life, and suggested that i might need a girlfriend.? I thought it was the perfect time to write about finding love in the same sex. Many women whom seek love in another woman claim that they are "FED UP" with men, for they have had negative, unhealthy, stressful relationships with them. They claim ALL men are Low Down, Scandalous, Trifling, NO good, Good For Nothing DOGS.. lol Don't get me wrong, many men have these qualities, and i can NOT name 1 woman i know that has NOT had their fair share, not even myself. BUT I'm not Ignorant to the fact there has to be SOME GOOD MEN out there.

Women who say they are going to be gay because ALL men are Dogs is whack and immature to me. Same goes for when a black women says I'm NOT Dating black men anymore. Love is color blind. Just as you can find love in any color, race, ethnicity etc YOU CAN also find love in any gender. (its just taboo to do so) So if a woman wants to switch it up, it should be for the right reasons. NOT because she is bitter and scorned but for LOVE AND COMPANIONSHIP.

If a female seeks interest in another woman more POWER to them. Love is BEAUTIFUL, regardless of sexual orientation. I wasn't opposed to the idea, but I KNOW where my heart is. Though I'm probably lonely 70% or more of the time and have been single going on 5 years (lol) I try and not let that discourage me. I KNOW what i want NEED and DESERVE and i Refuse to settle for anything less than that. I remain optimistic that God will eventually Bless me with the man he feels is right for me, as he has in the past.

Why would i involve myself romantically with a woman and possibly get attached, when ultimately i want a LIFE (male) partner whom i can start a family with.? I'm not thinking for NOW and i don't want INSTANT GRATIFICATION. I'm thinking long term, and for me, a homosexual relationship would be far from that. Women are fun to play with, but I sure don't want one for a life partner.

(I chose purple because today has been declared Spirit Day. Wear purple to raise awareness of and honor the 8 gay teens who recently took their lives) :)

He Only wants RELATIONS!!

As I grow and mature it has been quite evident that women go day in and day out looking for their next Mr. Right. While men on the other hand are looking for their next Mrs. Right NOW!! The way women view men and relationships, are a complete 180 from the View of a mans'. Most women want someone they can call their own, confide in, cuddle with, enjoy their company, etc...overall A male companion. Men however, view women and relationships like a sport. Most men dont even use the word relationship. Cut the last 3 letters from it and to put it simply, they just want RELATIONS.

My homeboy was telling me the other day about his friends, whom are well established figures in the Entertainment industry, and how they have mutiple women. He went to telling me how HARD they go when it comes to "Knocking Down" females. He told me that they had women in damn near every area code. "When they touch down in a city they just hit em up and knock em down." And all I could think is, Daamn!! Now i wonder how many of those women know they are just 1 of many women, and if they cared or not. My homeboy continued to Boast on how these two men are Living The Life, F*cking a different woman, (FINE WOMEN) damn near every night, and how they Don't Plan on stopping any time soon. These two Bachelors come across women who are worthy of being wifed but they say "Fuck Marriage".

It is in a mans' nature to want to be conquerers and want to be with more than one woman. But it is also in a womans' nature to love and to be loved, nurtured, protected etc.. Where does that leave everyone? Women will continue to F*ck these men whom want nothing more then Instant Gratification, and will continue to mistake physical stimulation with an Emotional one. So at the end of the day, men get what they want, because us women give it to them. All men see women as an opportunity to gain sexual satisfaction and fullfillment. And women are left, sexually used and probably even more lonely and empty then before. We women want something that men temporarily refuse to or are not capable of giving us. So we are left to either wait and be alone with no one to be exclusive with, or find Love in our fellow female counterparts. (ill touch on that in another entry) Its just really Unfortunate *Trey Songz*.

Live Your Life Dont Think About ME

Many people need to live their lives and dont think about me. I hate for someone to tell me how to live my life. I cant help but be annoyed with associates and family members telling me how to live my life. This Is MY LIFE. Live your own life the way you want. Its one thing for a person to give suggestions on certain aspects of life experiences and not wanting me to make the same mistakes, i get that, i understand that, i APPRECIATE that. But its one thing for a person to act Holier than thou, and act as if their life is in order. Then try to down me for my "wrong doings" (according to them) and actions. People are so quick to give their opinion on what I do, the things I SAY, the CLOTHES I wear, the PHOTOS I take etc... I DO WHAT I WANT. I dont go by "the book". Im old enough to make my own decsions and even deal with possible consequences of my actions. I've made pretty good decisions through out my life, and if not I learn from them. I mind my OWN BUSINESS, why does it seem so difficult for others to do the same? Other peoples actions, the things they say, the photos they take are ALL THEM. They are EXPRESSING themselves. If its not harming me, I really dont give a damn. Thats their Life, not MINE. I wish certain individuals would do the same, and just let me LIVE!! They need to live their Life and NOT think about ME!

Why are you soo Thirsty for Followers??

So let me start off by saying if you dont have a TWITTER Account #KILLYOURSELF!!

Twitter is pretty much the next best thing to sliced Bread (who ever made that saying up any way? #imjustsaying) lol Twitter is a free social networking and microblogging service that enables its users to send and read messages known as tweets.

So awhile back PInky @therealpinkyxxx tweeted that if your not promoting anything then why do you want or even need alot of followers? and I was like, thats so true. People constantly tweet they need more followers, or lost some followers, etc..BUT FOR WHAT? If your not promoting anything such as your own business, your hustle, job, or career then whats the point in having a lot of followers? People are obsessed with quantity. The more followers they have the more important they feel. Its a Self Esteem Booster. The number of people who choose to receive your tweets doesnt validate you being a "LEADER" or being "cool". People, be content with the amount of followers you have, geesh! People so badly want to be known, seen, & heard, BUT FOR WHAT? They most likely dont have sh*t to say. So people stop being so damn dry mouthed & thirsty for so many followers, you probably really need to tweet is..... "Dont Follow Me, IM LOST TOO"

P.S. fOLLOw Me @247BritneyLove lol... I joke, i joke