Dear Diary,
It seems like when certain friends get a boyfriend they either disappear or I never see them without their boyfriend. It annoys the HELL out of me when a friend gets a new person in their life and forget what and who they had before their new "BOO" even came along. So WHACK!! What is it about love that makes people so oblivious to the people who loved and cared about them first?
Friends can hang, kick it, have their "girl talk" daily and all of a sudden ...that STOPS. No longer do ALL of the girls hang out together, because one is always with her "MAN" and either doesn't want to kick it any more, or she cant. How could any one just abandon the ones who care about them the MOST? I know I couldn't. Never have. Never Will. Guys come and go but TRUE friends are FOREVER! Its unfortunate that either some so called friends are too blind to see it or don't believe that.
Now don't get me wrong, in these situations in NOOOO way am i jealous or bitter. If my friends are truly happy in their new found relationship then I'm genuinely happy for them, as any friend should be. And I'm all for finding thee one, or at least having someone in your life that makes your heart skip a beat. As we get older we will begin to spend less time with our friends and more with significant others. But for two people to share every waking moment of the day and even night joined at the hip can be so sickening. In no way do I find this healthy. I don't see it being a good idea being around ANYONE 24/7. I believe that absence really can make the heart grow fonder.
I can really respect a women when she doesn't drop everything for a man or whomever shes dating. And for her to still make time to spend with her girls is beautiful. When a women leaves her friends abruptly then the friendship will eventually more or less die altogether...... Until they come crawling back... AFTER the break up. What do you think??
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