Sex Appeal vs. Money

   Being Single I've come to the realization that it's Hard to come across a man that meets all of our standards. Conversing with other single women I've noticed that I am not the only lady that feels like theres Always something "wrong" with a guy thats interested in me.  For instance, the real Fine men whom are physically and sexually attractive, with a great sense of humor either A) don't have a career or make little to NO money. Or B) they DO have money but show no interest in spending it on you i.e dates etc.. Let's be real, women Are going to require that a man has money.  Money equates to Financial stability. These fine men who don't have a dime or not willing to share it are use to getting and keeping women solely off of their dashing good looks and sex. In their mind they do NOT have to break bread because so many females have and will continue to be content with the minimum these particular guys are willing to offer. In fact some of these women are cashing out these fine men to keep them around. "Nooooo Sir, NOT mee!!"

   And there's the guy who is highly educated, has a great career, nice car & residence. This man has no problem taking you out on dates & spending his money on you.  He knows how to treat a lady and  gets pleasure from it. Sounds like a great catch right? Well the only thing is he A) is corny/lame and you guys have No spark/chemistry B) your not physically/sexually attracted to him or C) Both .  In either situation a woman would be settling. Sex appeal or Money? Which is more important? It's hard to choose because women want a man who wines & dines her that has a great career. This type of guy will make a great husband. But then again a lady wants someone she is comfortable with and wouldn't mind waking up to every morning.  Do we settle or keep on looking for a man that meets bothrequirements?