Sex Appeal vs. Money

   Being Single I've come to the realization that it's Hard to come across a man that meets all of our standards. Conversing with other single women I've noticed that I am not the only lady that feels like theres Always something "wrong" with a guy thats interested in me.  For instance, the real Fine men whom are physically and sexually attractive, with a great sense of humor either A) don't have a career or make little to NO money. Or B) they DO have money but show no interest in spending it on you i.e dates etc.. Let's be real, women Are going to require that a man has money.  Money equates to Financial stability. These fine men who don't have a dime or not willing to share it are use to getting and keeping women solely off of their dashing good looks and sex. In their mind they do NOT have to break bread because so many females have and will continue to be content with the minimum these particular guys are willing to offer. In fact some of these women are cashing out these fine men to keep them around. "Nooooo Sir, NOT mee!!"

   And there's the guy who is highly educated, has a great career, nice car & residence. This man has no problem taking you out on dates & spending his money on you.  He knows how to treat a lady and  gets pleasure from it. Sounds like a great catch right? Well the only thing is he A) is corny/lame and you guys have No spark/chemistry B) your not physically/sexually attracted to him or C) Both .  In either situation a woman would be settling. Sex appeal or Money? Which is more important? It's hard to choose because women want a man who wines & dines her that has a great career. This type of guy will make a great husband. But then again a lady wants someone she is comfortable with and wouldn't mind waking up to every morning.  Do we settle or keep on looking for a man that meets bothrequirements?

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Sincerely, the Single Woman

Is it so hard to find a man....

-That is Intellectual And Educated
- That is Respectful
- That Appreciates me
-That knows my worth
- That wants me for more than arm Candy
- To want to become my best friend before my lover
- That is Consistent
- Generous and Considerate
- That will remember my birthday, & makes me feel Special

- That will check on me when Im sick
- That is NOT Promiscuous
- That wants me Exclusively
- That is NOT Controlling or Aggressive
- That will compliment my beauty with no make up
- Who is Honest and Truthful
- Who does NOT ask what i can do for him, but what he can do for me
- Willing to bend over backwards just to Make me Happy
- Who admits when he is wrong
- Who'd open their arms & ears when I'm vulnerable
- That Supports me, my goals & future endeavors.
- Whose actions speak louder than their words
- That is Forgiving
- That is NOT Full of excuses
- That has his own
- To uplift me as I can equally uplift him
Is it so hard to find a man that can make me a better woman?

Sincerely,
the Single Woman

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Wayne Adds a Verse to Roman's Revenge

Nicki Minaj wasnt able to get Wayne On her debut Album "PINK FRIDAY". However Lil Wayne Does Drop a verse on Roman's Revenge.  Listen to his feature by clicking the Link below

http://www.hulkshare.com/oiihlgnl9a13

Dear Diary,

Dear Diary,

Will I be lonely forever?

Will I love again?

Do I Know what Love is?

When will this emptiness go away?

Why haven't I gone crazy I stay in my room day in day out not seeing any one? Or am I going crazy?

I dont think any one understands me.

The Tears come back every once in awhile. Like now.

Why Me?

I'm a good genuine person with a BIG heart.

I'm tired of people suggesting I lower my standards & settle. That won't make me happy. How dare They.

I'm Unhappy here.

I feel I Don't Belong here.

No one really handled my delicate heart with care.

When I'm around people in public I'm full of Life, but little do they know I feel like I'm Dying inside.

Am I being too dramatic? Or hitting the nail on the head?

I'm glad I'm not suicidal.

I want/Need a Therapist.

Help!!!

Sincerely Yours,

Lil Wayne Says NO to Dark Skinned Children!?!

   IF You have listened to Waynes' hits then you know what type of women he likes.  "Long hair, Thick RED BONE" and a beautiful Black woman, "I Bet That B*tch Look Better Red".  We have all heard and recited Lil Wayne's lyrics referring to light skinned women.  But have we really analyzed it?  Have we even taken into consideration how offensive that really IS or can be?  We brush them off because their just "lyrics" recited by Wayne '1 Of The Best Rappers Alive' & in Hip Hop he can DO NO wrong.  Are we supporting our favorite rappers who discriminate against Beautiful BLACK Chocolate WOMEN?  Is it Not shocking that a chocolate man birthed from a Beautiful Black Woman wouldn't even consider dating, let alone Conceiving with an Ebony Lady?  No dark women equates to NO DARK children!! "My Daughter is the first and last dark skin child I'm having.  The rest of my baby moms light skinned chicks.  I even got an Asian baby moms to make sure I have a daughter with good hair.  Too bad we had a son."  The Ignorance in this is appalling.  How is that suppose to make Reginae feel?   Will she be opposed to dating a Brown skin man like her dad when she's older? And will Wayne's sons follow in his footsteps?? 

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What are your Thoughts on Wayne & Black men in general opposed to dating "Dark Skin" BLACK Women??  Leave a comment, Let me know!