As I grow and mature it has been quite evident that women go day in and day out looking for their next Mr. Right. While men on the other hand are looking for their next Mrs. Right NOW!! The way women view men and relationships, are a complete 180 from the View of a mans'. Most women want someone they can call their own, confide in, cuddle with, enjoy their company, etc...overall A male companion. Men however, view women and relationships like a sport. Most men dont even use the word relationship. Cut the last 3 letters from it and to put it simply, they just want RELATIONS.
My homeboy was telling me the other day about his friends, whom are well established figures in the Entertainment industry, and how they have mutiple women. He went to telling me how HARD they go when it comes to "Knocking Down" females. He told me that they had women in damn near every area code. "When they touch down in a city they just hit em up and knock em down." And all I could think is, Daamn!! Now i wonder how many of those women know they are just 1 of many women, and if they cared or not. My homeboy continued to Boast on how these two men are Living The Life, F*cking a different woman, (FINE WOMEN) damn near every night, and how they Don't Plan on stopping any time soon. These two Bachelors come across women who are worthy of being wifed but they say "Fuck Marriage".
It is in a mans' nature to want to be conquerers and want to be with more than one woman. But it is also in a womans' nature to love and to be loved, nurtured, protected etc.. Where does that leave everyone? Women will continue to F*ck these men whom want nothing more then Instant Gratification, and will continue to mistake physical stimulation with an Emotional one. So at the end of the day, men get what they want, because us women give it to them. All men see women as an opportunity to gain sexual satisfaction and fullfillment. And women are left, sexually used and probably even more lonely and empty then before. We women want something that men temporarily refuse to or are not capable of giving us. So we are left to either wait and be alone with no one to be exclusive with, or find Love in our fellow female counterparts. (ill touch on that in another entry) Its just really Unfortunate *Trey Songz*.
